GirlChat #472098
So many adults look at children as incomplete human beings, while we look at them as developing human beings with infinite potential. We Love everything about little girls including their mannerisms, their personality and how they are so endlessly positive and full of energy. To us, they are not something that needs to be trained or fixed and they know it. It really isn't so much that they see us looking at them in a certain way and they appreciate and enjoy it, although that's a factor many of us have recognized from personal experience. I would argue that what happens on a deeper level is a meeting of the minds, how many of us have craved the level of openness and spontaneity in a partner that little girls so readily express? It's because we ourselves are naturally disposed to similarly extroverted modes of self expression. When a little girl looks at a man who really Loves her, she sees someone who reciprocates and nurtures her desire to reach out for the deep, authentic Love and Affection that almost all other adults with-hold from her. There are none of those barriers in place because we can recognize a child as a Human being on all levels.
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