Hi Stahntii! Hope life is going OK for you, and you will maybe get to spend some time with your Mom this weekend. I don't know much about B4UACT, and I don't usually put much faith in programs. But I will say that I feel like they're providing a useful service. I don't believe I've ever felt that I should seek therapy, any issues I have I will work through on my own, but I would never shun or stigmatize anyone for making a different choice, if you FEEL like you should be talking with a shrink, you probably SHOULD be talking with a shrink. And that's OK. See my post about four forums up talking with LGL. (It will be the one with my signature three (3) disparate words tied together in the post, which usually signifies a Mimzy-rant.©) Then you'll understand what I think of shrinks. As far as Gatekeeper, I posted a reply, check it out, let's just say that I'm not impressed with fear-mongering tactics from either side of this issue, if there are problems with B4Uact, let's here from someone who is in the know, otherwise it's pointless to point fingers. (bad pun) But, look at it this way. NFiH, Dante, and Kero, Mesmerised, Lgsinmyheart, these guys have been posting around here forever. I know that some members of GC post on the BC site as well. So, do you really think that they'd let this dude Michael M. stay around, if things WEREN'T on the level? Look what happened to the ones we don't mention, and they weren't even pulling any shit like this. The way I see it, you simply GOTTA trust somebody, and I respect these gentlemen enough to know that if they had even one little suspicion that this dude was diming folks out, they'd zap his ass and quick. Kero's sigpic (the cop one that you liked so much) would have to be changed to "I just kicked your ass, AND I got away with it! Now piss off you scumbag!" or something like that. Yeah, nothing against Gatekeeper, he's just reporting what he read or heard somewhere, but I'm kinda gonna go with the mods on this one.