that only delays it one step...

In which case, walk the next step:

What is the difference between their own hand and that of an adult???

and...

or atleast they are againt it because they are afraid of being pedophiles.

I've been criticised here for saying this, but I do believe on it... it's one thing to have a fear, and I can even go as far as recognising that a fear exists - but some fears are irrational or unjustified, and I will NOT refrain from saying it just because it might hurt the people whose fears are irrational or unjustified, thanks.

And that was not against you, but against, in general, the people who are afraid of paedophilia for no particular rational and justifiable reason.