Re: Do 8yo girls know what they're doing?

It's just not worth the risk. The main worry is if later down the track antis get into her company and make her believe she's some kind of "victim" of her desires:(

I've had many other situations too that have come as a surprise. I used to have this neighbour who was a gorgeous sissy-boy...he was VERY delicate and pretty and always used to come over to my house. He was also the same age as the girl I was talking about (7) and he had quite a confident and cheeky personality. One day straight out of the blue he suddenly asked me so bluntly "Is it ok if I suck on your penis?" ..there was a gap of silence and I was kind of shocked as I wasn't expecting him to suddenly utter such words (although in another way I wasn't the least bit surprised, given he was so effeminate looking). I didn't know what to say but I knew it was out of the question even though I had become aware at that stage that we both wanted to go ahead with it. I was trying to think of how to say 'no', then he asked me again...I said "You know just as much as I do that thats out of the question...don't you KNOW what the world is LIKE out there?" He then became a bit withdrawn and was blushing with embarrassment because of his failed sexual advance. These awkward situations can make it very hard to be tactful:-<