Lol, had to make fun of that. Look, no one can surely predict what they will do in the future. You do not think you will, because you know the consequences and have faith in your restraint, and we tend to use absolute terms in describing ourselves, I guess maybe I tend to object since I see past and future selves as in some ways, different people who are difficult to predict since we do not fully know the absolute state of who they were or will be (just as we do not fully know our own).

But anyway as to your question, it's hard to say. I think it's possible she partly knows what she's doing... like not fully, not all the innuendos or whatever, but that it is intimate and pushing boundaries and so forth. But anyway yeah, go ahead and wonder. Wondering is thought and imagination and harmless, and pretty natural for human brains to do. It does seem unusual (though you are likely not the first to experience such things) so it is understandable to reflect upon it.

How much people understand, and their motivations, are things you find out over time with continued interactions. At the same time, though satisfying curiosity is tempting, learning more from her may lead her to do more if she does have some kinda intention, which is bad news since you'd have to turn it down which could be upsettin', which is why kind of leaving things in limbo in a friendly asexual level is sometimes better, at least in these days...