I'm all for freedom of choice.

If she appreciates and is fulfilled by a romantic relationship, then who am I to deny her the right?

It would be disrespectful to presume that she's not sexually attracted if she is. Just as it would be disrespectful to presume otherwise.

By asking just the guys to answer while casting doubt on the ability of girls to desire older men, you've tried to eliminate the class of people who can tell you from experience rather than supposition that you're wrong about some girls.

I'm all for freedom of choice. I wasn't into boys or men. Either this was respected by them, or nobody desired little Dante. Net-result, no disparity between desire and experience.

Dante