Here's the thing, though:

the Democrats are too scared NOT to be antis.

I've done some research and found that Democrats are often the ones who are pushing these laws, hence why 100% of Democrats have voted for the last two laws, while 2 and 3 Republicans voted against the last two laws respectively(Ron Paul has voted against at least 3 anti laws since 2002). It's not like Republicans are forcing them to do this, if anything it seems like Republicans are too scared to vote against Democrat backed anti laws because they can't be seen as having less "family values" than a Democrat.

The more Libertarian leaning Republicans like Ron Paul and a few others are the only ones with the guts to say no to them. Religious Republicans and their neo-con allies seem to hate sex in general, Democrats seem to hate sex that doesn't involve "consenting adults" in particular. We're the scapegoats for them, while they coddle all the other types of "perverts". These people are fanatical about the concept of "consenting adults", it's like some sort of mantra for them.

If you grew up in a liberal family in a liberal area like I did, you heard it so much it made your ears bleed. Once, I tried telling my dad about how I was sick of hearing it, but since he believes in it so strongly, he kept defending it. It seems like liberals almost always use the term "pedophile" to refer to child molesters. Conservatives are more likely to say "child molester" instead. I don't like it, I wish the people I grew up with would accept me and others like me, but they don't.