Is liking little girls like an obsession.

Nope.

Does it consume your life.

The politics does. The actual being paederotic, no.

I know when I see a good looking guy, I will look at him, but it doesn't mean that I want him.

Yup. It's pretty much like that.

I also look at girls and think they are pretty. Especially little girls.

Congratulations on coming out as LGL. Welcome to GC. Looks like you can use your first-hand experience to answer a lot of your questions. :)

If someone has touched a little girl and gotten in trouble and had to go to jail, is that basically enough to make you never touch another little girl even though you may want to.

Actually, I don't give a shit about law or prison for the sole reason that the government is repressive enough that it doesn't matter anyway. ~shrug~ Cost-benefit analysis; in a free country under a lawful government, one tends to more-or-less follow the law. When one is obscenely likely to be falsely imprisoned for the fuck of it anyway, following the law loses importance.

How hard is it to have control where you would never touch a little girl.

...about as hard as it is for you not to beat random men you've never met over the head and start fondling their unconscious body.

...do you have a problem with that in your life???

People tell me that it is an addiction.

My racist grandmother occasionally tells me that "darkies" have uncontrollable urges to rape white women.

Personally, I don't trust people to speak about communities they are dissupportive of. 'specially ones in which they don't even have one friend that they've ever, ever met in real life.

...without that vital, positive contact, they're basically talking about imaginary people in their head, aren't they?

Anyways... welcome to GC, and congrats on the coming out. Incidentally, I'm with the rest of the board that your daughter has the final say, no offense.