Is liking little girls like an obsession. Does it consume your life.

Yes. But it's a good obsession! I'd call it a passion - an all-consuming passion. As far as obsessions go, it's not a bad one to have - to be utterly transfixed by perfect beauty.

Do you look at most little girls and think, ooh I wish I could have her.

It depends on the girl. When a little girl attracts me, I'm usually taken way beyond the realms of mere thought... I'm taken out of myself, out of this world into somewhere much happier, much nicer. Of course there is desire - but awe as well - a bit like being under a spell; my username tends to sum it up.

If someone has touched a little girl and gotten in trouble and had to go to jail, is that basically enough to make you never touch another little girl even though you may want to.

The law is cruel - it prohibits consensual erotic relationships on the basis of a number, an age. But nonetheless, I'd stay the right side of it; as far as I'm concerned, the consequences to the girl and to myself would just be too much. It is not really about wanting to 'touch a little girl', as a longing for a naturally emerging relationship to be able to have its freedom to express itself without censure. As responsible girl lovers, we keep ourselves within the law, but many of us feel that the prevalent societal view on child/adult relationships is very wrong, and discriminatory.

How hard is it to have control where you would never touch a little girl.

It is hard, but necessary, if the girl herself wants to express herself in a way that would need to be drawn back from for legal reasons. But that, sadly, is the world in which we live. Fortunately, though, there are many ways in which a love for little girls can legally be expressed even in our censorious society: many non-sexual forms of expression. It can be hard, but I couldn't imagine being without girl love - for me, it is absolutely central to who I am as a person, and I can't imagine life without that.