Like taf-kat said it seems he betrayed you and your daughters trust. If he really loved you and your daughter he would have acted as a father. Also you may be in love with the man you knew, not what he is. Be careful of that.

I am attracted to girls of all ages. With little girls emotional attraction out-weighs the sexual. With girls near my age sexual and emotional are the same. This is me though not all.

I'd also like to thank you for having the bravery to come ask actual pedophiles about this. It shows you truly wish to understand.