it depends on what you mean by molested. to start with, how does your daughter feel about him? isn't that the most important thing?

also, it sounds as if the therapeutic / criminal justice industry has decided to 'get' him, regardless of who they hurt in the process, so there's that to consider. more importantly, if he loved you and your daughter, surely he would plead guilty so she wouldn't have to testify. what's going on there?

as for your question.. yes its possible. its also possible for a pedophile to be a devoted and loving husband and father. one doesn't need to be attracted to all women to love one woman. one can also be attracted to children without molesting them.

but there is a good chance your daughter is a significant element this man's interest in you and your family. that doesn't mean he is being selfish, just that his social and familial world is structured differently. all the same, you need to be open to this possibility, to talk about it with him and to be absolutely certain your daughter feels safe and comfortable having him around.

thats what i think anyway.