I guess I just wonder what it is in your head which makes you feel compelled to find out where she lives in the first place. I wonder just what difference it actually makes to you, or anyone for that matter. I'm sorry, I did overreact with my reply. It would just generally bother me if someone, no matter who it is, was interested enough in where I live to strike up an "innocent" conversation with someone I know, simply to get that information.