I have nothing against your expressed intentions in this post. What you actually do and what you actually believe, I cannot say for sure, and so I cannot get behind it.

We do share some common goals with antis, such as fighting (true) rape and emotional abuse, not to mention abuse of adult authority for sexual gain. I don't think you understand the trust that was placed in you, nor the worry that your tepid support of girl love produces. You will of course be vindicated according to your actions, but to submit so many people to a roll of the dice in what you will eventally do is not something I would want to endure myself, and I am glad that I just never happened to give you any personal info on myself. I would have been very willing to, and that disturbs me to no end. I hope my faith in you was warranted, and I still hope you can bridge divides on common goals with antis, without allowing your trust in them to subject people on the other side to undue harassment or harm.