The wording of your post is beautyful, seriously! It's only that...

I have been out of the toybox since age 9. Yes, that's right, no typo here: nine. MANY people here are out, inspite of living in very hostyle surroundings. Some are activitst i admire, and i will name them if you wish. Others {inclueding me} merely make it a habit to never pass an anti without chalanging his views, which promotes our cause as well. What is is that you do, and what is it, specifically, that you imply we should all be doing? You seem to have omitted that in your post.