that lg's and early ag's tend to notice me more when I am shaven clean and look like a high-schooler than when I am full bearded and look about my real age

Yep, definitely. I pass for a teenager when clean shaven and dressed like a teenager, complete with baseball cap and earring ;) Then they seem to be more comfortable approaching me or being seen with me.

but still, where do you get your fetish loving lg's??????

Lots of lgs also like a big brother figure even if they aren't interested in a relationship, and that's a great way to meet other lgs who are interested. They will come to you.