As a kid I used to look through my Dad's copies of Playboy. ( It was for the interviews and the Gahan Wilson cartoons, I assure you )

But by the time I was in the throes of puberty, my favorite models were the petite ones. ( Devin DeVasquez anyone? ) Even then, the one's who made Hef's cut were definitely curvy and back in those days, had pubes.

I guess what I'm saying is that as a child, I took girls for granted and was drawn to attractive co-eds as sex-objects. Now that my sexuality has come into its own, I can see the beauty of both. But I value the physical features of girls in girls, and of women in women. ( I still don't care for women who shave their pubes )

Attraction should be about more than looks. Its possible to be attracted by looks at first sight. But its very rare to have such an in-depth first encounter as to fall for someone's personality at first meeting. However, I now place more emphasis on personality than I did in the past. Do I feel relaxed around her? Does she make me laugh? Does she bring out the best in me? These things matter more in the long run. And I guess I'm looking for someone for the long run.

Dante