Nowhere did I advocate forcing anything on anyone.

You learned from other kids? That has so many flaws I do not know where to begin.

First, if you did "learn" from other kids then you acquired
a mass of misinformation and wrong ideas that had to be unlearned over the course of the years.

Second, it is a real tribute to the inner strength of girls that the young ladies you traumatized did not run screaming down the street swearing off boys for life. Or would you have us believe that you were born a skillful lover? Hah!

And where did you get the notion that I meant anyone having anyone as a "captive"?
I was actually thinking of the sexually permissive societies such as some of those in the South Seas where children are encouraged to engage in sex play at an early age. Those who watch adults usually begin copulating at six or seen years of age.
Then, there are societies such as the Lepcha of the Darjeeling province in India where it is quite common to see men of 80 copulating with girls of eight, and doing it openly. See "The Annotated Lolita" for source information.

Finally, that bit of the post was partially tongue-in-cheek; an inside joke to an old friend. However, many a truth is said in jest, so it was not all leg-pulling, although it was interesting to see whose legs came off.

Last but not least, I hate to belabor the obvious but it is not the same for girls as for boys.