well said! how can we teach the kids when the adults are afraid of going to jail? many adults avoid answering even the simplist questions for this very reason. the idea of actually showing them how to do it is out of the question right now,although that is the way it was done for centuries, when a child was given a "mentor." children used to be an active part of society and were taught all things as soon as they showed an interest. now we spoon feed them until they are 18 and then wonder why there are so many losers out there.

when i was a kid i met more than one adult who wanted to fool around but was afraid to approach me. i wanted to do it with them too but was afraid to ask just in case i was reading them wrong or they wouldnt know how to react to me. so,we both denied ourselves what could have been a wonderful experience just because of the fear of getting caught. meanwhile,my loving,responsible PARENT (my mom) beat me while protecting me from outside interference. so i find it hard to swallow when someone says "you shouldnt have contact with kids. keep your fantasies to yourself. parents are there to protect the kids and make sure they are safe."
right. because kids would NEVER be interested in learning from a loving adult other than mom and dad. dont make me laugh. most parents lie to their kids because they are so hung up emotionally that they cant even talk to them about it,let alone give them permission to seek out a childlover......