First, there's Cindy K, who came here seeking answers after a real-life crisis, and is still here over a year later.

Second, there's Stellaluna, who is curious about us and quite respectful of us, who is probably still around reading quietly, after the big splash her ten questions caused.

I'm sure there are others with equally respectable motives for being here. Some here consider "child" to be an insult when used to refer to the objects of their attractions, who are teens, hence they don't refer to themselves as "child lovers" (and a couple of them go into raving fits when anyone says "child lover" in a way implied to include them), but since they have the same problems with the laws that the rest of us do, they have every right to be here and express their views.