GirlChat #607476
Saying "it might as well be abuse" is victim blaming. I notice this a lot in the paedosexual community.
You can say you wouldn't do it and recommend others not do it, but once you start saying they are at fault and getting mad at them then it becomes a problem. Believe me I preach to other nons a lot to the rest of the world. However I am not going to avoid critiquing where I feel there needs to be critique. |