It's sad that the parents that seem to let their daughters express sexuality are the ones actually living vicariously through them. I think it's important if you call yourself a girl lover to make sure this is what the girl wants and not what her mom is forcing her to do. What's good about this situation is if the girl expresses that she wants to dress more modestly but mom won't let her you won't come off as a pervert if it was the oppisite.