GirlChat #606149
I agree it shouldn't be a paraphilia. Many females are attracted to older men, men to younger females, many people attracted to different characteristics in a female etc. That's attraction which is different for everyone but I don't consider those as paraphilia.
If the dictionary definition of sexual orientation specifies gender however then we would need to change the base definition. I personally think the definition should be updated but I don't see that as something easy to achieve in which case is it better to focus on arguing that pedophilia is not a mental condition but a natural attraction like any other? |