I'm not sure about it "dominating" ones life.

But in an environment created by the Antis that sets off bells and whistles at the slightest fleeting Pedo expression it is wise to mention that fleeting Pedo responses are are found in about 95% of the hetero majority.

In a homophobic environment we cannot all help but be gay. But absent homophobic overreactions, most of us aren't gay to a significant enough degree to merit mentioning.

My attitude is that if you aren't hypervigilant, don't care whether you are or aren't, and still feel that its an important part of your identity; then you are.

Dante