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Re: awake

Posted by EthanEdwards on Thursday, November 20 2014 at 04:26:04AM
In reply to Re: awake posted by sadlife on Thursday, November 20 2014 at 03:15:07AM

ending its sexual aspect quickly ... how? lock her up?

Obviously I meant using the parental tools at my disposal at the time, it varying greatly depending on age and temperament. I was thinking of a girl 12 or under. I remember as a parent that it amazed me how easily kids typically give in to their parents. In practical terms kids have far more power than most of them come near using. I have a hunch evolution shaped them to have the opinion that doing what your parent says is on average good for you in the long run.

I don't think girls are angels, they just LOOK like angels.

Great. We agree on something.

I think [sex for fun] is a mistake and I would try to help her make better decisions and him (if adult) to not accept.

Great.

At the same time, though, if she says she wanted to do it, I don't like the response that we must punish both partners with theRapy and jail after the fact.

This is more likely to be an issue with a 14-year-old than a younger child. I've said over and over that I would change the law so that a man is not prosecuted unless the girl wants him to be. But under today's laws... A truly rebellious young teen is hard to handle. I would probably try to use the THREAT of calling the cops as leverage. It would be a tough situation.

I think you are making judgements without basis about US

"US" means the best selves of the frequent GC posters? No, I'm making judgments about the large numbers of men -- a great many of them not pedophiles -- who I think might take advantage of that kind of situation.

the small number of girls who might be enthusiastic about sex... is changing fast.

Got any evidence on that?

Well, you do seem to be very good at imagining evil intent. Not so good at imaging love and understanding. The world stays evil because we think that it is. Some of us have hopes of rising above that.

I appreciate your noble ideals. In erotic fiction or private fantasies or little girl moments, I'm all for idealism and gentle wonder. But when it comes to the world I think you are seriously misguided. Bad guys are a reality and always will be -- the kind you and I would agree are behaving badly, as in lying about intentions or using coercion or force. For every loving girl/man never-to-be-regretted sexual relationship that gets driven underground or deterred because of laws banning them, I see 99 bad guys deterred ("shit, I can't even just say she consented!").

I wouldn't allow it with parental consent either... You mean you wouldn't VOTE for it? Or are you an officer of the law?

Actually, I am God. I've just got to think of an excuse for why I've allowed so much evil in the world for this long, and as soon as I do I'll make everything OK. (Hey Dissy, that was a joke. Or that's what I want you to think, bwahahaha.)







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