GirlChat #605716
Re: Thanks! And some concerns.
Posted by EthanEdwards on 2014-November-15 19:53:35 EST, Saturday
In reply to Re: Thanks! And some concerns. posted by Matthew Hutton on 2014-November-15 16:02:38 EST, Saturday
I do think email could skew the answers considerably. No one wants to go on record as saying they would breach a patient's confidentiality unnecessarily -- a serious breach of professional ethics. But in the moment, with a particular situation, it might be different.
What people have reported in the Virtuous Pedophiles group (and I think B4U-ACT too) is sudden termination of the therapeutic relationship when attraction to children is mentioned. Sometimes just a call between sessions to say they can't meet again, with no referral to any other therapist. It could be simple prejudice, or simple preference -- one therapist emailed me saying that therapists get to decide who they want to spend their days talking to, something a lot of us would like. It also could be a quick way out between a rock and a hard place -- the mandate of patient confidentiality and the mandate of potential abuse reporting. Now, terminating the relationship is not going to ruin a pedophile's life, but if you feel it's a great cause for shame (which many do) it's going to be very demoralizing to get the courage to tell someone and then have them tell you to get lost.
I blogged on this basic subject:
http://celibatepedos.blogspot.com/2014/07/keep-kids-safer-get-rid-of-mandated.html
Saying "almost all therapists would not report unless..." is OK if you mean that 9,999 out of 10,000 would not report. If it means that 4 out of 5 would not report, that could reasonably be considered an unacceptable risk.
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- Slight correction - Baldur on 2014-November-15 21:24:54 EST, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Something we can agree on. - Hierophant on 2014-November-15 20:21:46 EST, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)