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Re: The disposable Pedo

Posted by rainbowloom on Thursday, October 30 2014 at 08:01:50AM
In reply to The disposable Pedo posted by Dante on Wednesday, October 29 2014 at 02:44:17AM

I am out to most - not all - of my friends and family. In other words, anyone who I think probably gives a shit about me.

I tend to avoid telling family members who I imagine would react especially negatively - i.e. those with small kids. Not because I care about their negative reactions, but because I don't need the drama and I don't want to risk losing the kids.

I'm not out in my local community because A) it's none of their business - they're not going to be the ones asking me why I've never been in a relationship at 35 - and B) I interact with a lot of kids and I wouldn't want everything I've ever done called into question, especially with my LGF, not to mention the likelihood of losing contact with her completely in that scenario.

Nobody has a responsibility to come out. I tend to be of the opinion that most should come out, but when I say that, I mean to their friends and family, as long as those happen to constitute reasonably caring and non-judgemental people. Maybe I'm more lucky than I realize, I don't know. What I DO know is that not only do I now have a family and group of friends who understand and accept me for who I am, I now have a family and group of friends (say, 20ish in number) who are accepting of pedophiles / pedophilia in general. Not to mention I also have several family members who will probably have children in the future and who will want me to be part of their children's lives, and who will not be confused when I end up having really close relationships with their little girls. :)

I wouldn't come out online because I wouldn't want to give up 100% of my control re: who knows and who doesn't. I prefer a life of informational politics and lovely little ones to a life of martyrism and... well... severely limited access to the little ones.

On the other hand, being out to my friends and fam is a worthy gamble for a strong support network. And I managed to change a bunch of minds about pedophilia to boot. And many more to come.

Sorry if that's not good enough for anyone. :/

- Rainbow





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