It sure it great to see your nick posted! But what you have pointed out is, unfortunately, the way the real world is and, of course, innocent people are hurt by it.

I think the problem lies with human nature and it's drive to the individual urging him (or her) to push his (or her) opinions and values upon other people. Therefore, sex for him (or her) gets promoted that way. People have a nasty habit of not minding their own business because of it.

I am a little girl lover but I certainly would never insist (verbally, in writing or physically) my style of sexuality upon another. Yet, what if I did?

A Big Bottle Hug to you, my friend.