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Re: A Lesson for Ethan: The Male Gaze

Posted by sadlife on Wednesday, October 22 2014 at 8:16:19PM
In reply to Re: A Lesson for Ethan: The Male Gaze posted by EthanEdwards on Wednesday, October 22 2014 at 4:05:41PM

In contrast here we have sadlife's description (sorry to bring it up again, sadlife, but your post is unfortunately a test case):

That's okay. I think this is important to continue to discuss.

We talk at a much more honest level while bathing than we did before the 'break up'. Gentle cleaning and thorough rinsing was a topic. Places I can wash vs. places I cannot are constantly negotiated. As always has been the strongest attraction of these bath times is eye contact. She studies mine to see what I'm paying attention to. I tend to obey the attention on the eyes, sneaking glances elsewhere only when I'm sure I'm safe and she won't notice. The game puts a smile on both of our faces.

Did I say that? Yes, I did. I should have added "for me" after "strongest attraction" (it's a pedo thing). And I'll even volunteer a little more for you to chew on.

Here instead we have sadlife describing not just supervising his G9 in the bath (unclothed, of course) [how shameful, nude you say? harrumph]. He is describing a rather intense emotional experience of mutual eye contact, of her specifically paying attention to what he is noticing. He washes parts of her, and which parts are something she participates in negotiations about.

It's NOT intense. I think that's what has you hung up on this. It's about as intense as eating breakfast together, in both my and g9's view. She's so damn cute, she is given 2 washcloths that she uses as, sometimes a bikini, and other times a ball gown. She fidgets with the washcloth's and deliberately flashes me a little to see if I flinch. I don't. She giggles.

Yeah, it's sexy but it's NOT sex. And it's not hurting her, now, nor does anyone except you Ethan, believe to in the future. It's fun for both of us and everyone in the fam accepts it for what it is - harmless giggly fun.

And I wash her feet bro cuz she doesn't, just like I told you before.

What I was concerned about was primarily iatrogenic harm. (G9 is probably herself OK with this at the time, and it is likely she will never regret it if she keeps it a secret -- but also possible she will).

Well, again, you need to get off this secret stuff. And this maybe she will and maybe she won't speculation. That's not your job (unless qtns is right. But you say he is not) nor is it any of your business. She's not likely to tell her friends or her teachers or report me to VP for punishment. It's just bath time; that simple. She'll be kicking me out of the room soon enough. Let her enjoy being a little kid for as long as she likes.

I realize I have given you more ammunition for your crusade but really, don't you have bigger fish to fry in your virtuous world?



sadlife





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