"I would think a more standard way to handle that would be to set up some reward system for coming out with clean feet."

Maybe I'm just very out of touch with today's world, but I've never heard of anything like that. What standard are you going by?

And who the hell are you to tell this man how he should care for his grandchildren? Oh, right, you're Ethan Allknowing. Of course. It's your job to improve his ability to care for and help raise his grandchildren. I forgot about that.


"But I just can't apologize for raising an issue about the potential welfare of your girls. I should think you might thank me. Better safe than sorry, right?"

You are one arrogant son of a bitch. You misinterpreted sadlife's post and made very hurtful comments towards him because you're blind. By your logic, I should go out and shoot everyone I see. One of them might be a murderer. Better safe than sorry, right? Surely you have some iota of intelligence. You managed to turn your computer on, after all.

Yes, sadlife should thank you for being a prick, questioning his ability to care for children, accusing him of potentially harming his granddaughter, and almost running him away from the board because "what if I was right? Then I would have actually made a difference." Except you were wrong and you hurt someone by being wrong.

All the man wanted was for you to apologize for your gross misconception and the damage it did to him. Two words: "I'm sorry." Save your self-righteous garbage for your morning mirror pep talk and act like a decent human being.

This incident sets you apart from any girl lover I know. Typically, girl lovers tend to be more caring and sensitive. We have to be as girl lovers. That's how we connect to girls. But you are vile and hurtful to others. You think nothing of the consequences of what you say, then wonder why people can't stand you.

I made a mistake in an earlier post. I claimed that my opinion of you could go no lower. I never expected you to actually apologize, but to suggest that sadlife owes you gratitude? I am shocked.


"but they are nowhere near the paranoia of modern societal standards."

Worrying that helping your 9yo granddaughter bathe will be damaging to her actually does go beyond modern societal standards. But then again, so does the notion that bath videos are equivalent to child porn. Only in the world of law enforcement would that be true, and the more I think about it, the more I see how only in the world of law enforcement would helping a 9yo bathe be deemed harmful.