I am not IPCE, but I can attest to that.

The Cousin certainly has become more aware of how her parents and related adults would look at her, and consequently less confrontational as a result. Even as she still disagrees with some things. Even the times she is right and knows she is right.

To a point, the Twins too. They were less confrontational to begin with, and their parenting less narrow minded too. But still they have made visible progress in learning how to deal with those opinions which even if wrong, matter. And which, when right, are often articulated in a counterproductive authoritarian style rather than reasoned arguments.