GirlChat #603762
This is one term that I as a pedo do not want. "Grooming" just makes it sound completely one-sided, as if we're manipulating the children into liking us.
I think at least some of it is inherent to being a self-accepting pedophile. You like kids, you show an interest in them, you respect them, you don't dumb down your interactions with them, you let them see your honest emotions, you let them see the real you. It's natural that the kids like being with this type of person. Of course, when it comes to forming lasting emotional connections, that has much more to do with the personalities involved, right? I may generally get along really well with little girls, but some of them simply don't take to me as much as others. Can you get better at interacting with kids in a general sense, over time? Maybe. But being able to form that emotional bond with that one special little girl? No, that's much more inherent to being a pedo. - RBL |