This is what I picked up from reading this site. A non would be a non-paedosexual. That's what defines them and that's it. An anti would be someone, either a paedosexual or non, who is aggresively anti-paedosexual.

An ally, is someone who supports a discriminated group. In my case, I call myself an ally because I support paedosexuals (and children's sexual liberation) in their struggle. I would have no problem and as long as my daughter/sister/niece/cousin/whatever was happy I would take no issue. Of course I'd keep an eye out and occasionally ask her how things are going. However that's it.

I do not believe paedosexuals are inherently bad or dangerous, not in the slightest. I also do not believe sexual contact between adults and children, when consensual, are bad. I feel it is all up to how the child feels. Not anyone with an agenda.