I try to avoid ogling. But I also avoid conspicuously looking away.

Either way the goal is that she should not feel self-conscious of my little intersection with her life.

I'll tend to look briefly and then look somewhere else. Meanwhile my mind's eye is committing every feature to memory.

Of course many girls dawdle a bit behind their parents. So there's a last opportunity to steal a glance once you're past their gaze.

But better than stranger girls is the gaze of the one who seeks out your gaze. She comes into the room looking around hoping to find you. That's the best.

Dante