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But don't be deluded sweet aunt. Pedo's definitely think about little girl's private parts and, in their fantasies, think of scenarios that would allow sexual contact with them. That is their most undeniably essentially definable characteristic. But they control it.

The question is not about stopping all thoughts about a girl's, or all girls', private parts. It's about knowing the context, and knowing what's in context and what is not. I may spot the hottest girl I can imagine while walking on the street one day. I may desire and fantasize everything about her. But it's all context, and I am not going to approach her and just invite her to the next motel (even supposing all of it was legal.)

And knowing context also shows you that if you love a person, you love a whole person. It doesn't mean the person is perfect, but it means you appreciate the whole of her deeply enough. And that includes her cuddles and her morning or night kisses. You never stop thinking of her sexually, but in context, you don't express with each other sexually, because you have so many different forms of expressing with each other.

On the other hand, as I have said too, I think that also makes me dangerous in other situations. If context was such, I would find it impossible to stop a girl making advances on me, as I have said previously. Same as I can't scream "I want dat piece of ass" to a random girl, it violates context to reject a girl I know and like throwing herself to me out of her own mind, love and desire.