But

As I've pointed out before, you often confuse men's hetero-hebephilia with pedophilia in the much narrower sense.

I understand the difference. You do. Lateralus does.

Does it matter that we do when almost everyone else "out there" doesn't?

It does for the hebephile who would sell the narrow peds for his own acceptance (the way the teleio gays sold the BLers - or the teleio lesbians sold the korephiles).

Should it matter to anyone else? I don't think so. Or at least I am aiming higher.

Of course, since I personally straddle the menarche line, I guess some would say that my inclusive approach is itself selfishly motivated.