Re: There is more to our lives than loving girls

My options are limited because I am out of the closet in real life. I have yet to convince all of society that I am capable of being law-abiding. Society still has the attitude that MAAs have no control over their sexual desires, and that we are driven primarily by these desires. I am not sure how you manage to be out of the closet as a hebe and still have many girls in your life without being given any difficulties by your community, but it's not something I would recommend to any of us. It's taking some foolish risks unless you are good friends with every single member of your community, and they have no problem with a hebephile hanging out with the teen girls of the community. That is not a usual situation for a hebephile who is out to find himself in, because the bigotry against us is fierce. I am NOT limited in any way by my personality, but simply by my circumstances of being out in a society that has extreme bigotry towards hebephiles.

My desire to have teen girls in my life is not so overwhelmingly great that I am going to put myself at risk of being accused of something, or having an irate parent or police officer visit my house. I tend to have doubts whenever a fellow hebe tells me he is out in real life and has no problem having numerous teen girls in his life as friends.