Re: Hiya, KBA!

Ah, I do follow your thinking about the girl-lover and pedo thing.

Yes, I will admit that I find it very frustrating whenever someone who has really hurt a lg (and could never, ever be called a girl-lover) is called a 'pedophile', and I get just as frustrated with the fact that pedophile & rapist have come to mean the exact same thing...

I still don't have a problem with identifying as being a ped, though, 'cos I won't let the media tell me how to think. Fuck 'em!

When it comes to being open minded, and speaking your mind, well, I'm really sorry you got stung there. I don't think you deserved to, but it still happened...

But that's no need to be silenced, my friend, and I think you understand that.

I also feel for your lgf, too. I hope that she's ok.

But KBA, we all of us have things happen that we regret. And, I'm not so sure it was totally your fault - if it wasn't for well-meaning idiots who insist on poking their noses in where it's not needed, then I don't think things would have turned out badly.

So, I wouldn't beat yourself up too much, bud.

The best way to fix things? Well, you can't undo what is done, but you can learn from it, and go on to do it right next time. That's enough, KBA. That's alright.

Anyhow, talk to you soon, I hope!

TTFN,

T.