Re: Exactly.

Since when have paternalism and anti-sex feminism been at odds?

They're joined at the figurative hip.

BTW, I've never denied the existence of what you call anti-sex feminism - I just find it very unrealistic to spotlight it while downplaying or ignoring anti-sex masculinism, if you will. Some people (not saying you) live in a fantasy world in which men are all open-minded and uber-liberal about sex, held back only by killjoy women. The fact that highly male dominated societies are more, not less, sexually conservative should put that notion to rest.

But people set on believing something counterfactual are capable of almost an infinite degree of rationalization.