agreed

Years ago I advocated that we should go to various boards and enter into dialogue with people to tell our side of the story. Many here have done that. However, I did not anticipate that there would be much interest in entering into dialogue with antis.

On the one hand, it is good to talk to antis because many (most?) of them are self-hating pedophiles who need to understand that it is okay to be attracted to children, and, if they are of the minority of humans who have extremely violent fantasies about those they are attracted to, that their experience is not the norm. On the other hand, the people we really need to reach out to are those who do not have strong opinions one way or the other and are just going with the flow. They need to hear the other side, and they are the majority.