Re: I thought it was just me!

thought that my limit was around 12ish but I recently met a 10 year old that I fell for and kinda changed the way I look at my sexuality that perhaps theres not an age limit per se but more of the development of the girl in question.

Hebephilia--like pedophilia--is indeed based on an attraction to a specific level of physical and emotional development rather than being slavishly connected to an abstraction such as a number. While the lower limit of a hebephile is typically 12, which is why it's accurate for most hebes to list that age group as their typical lower age limit, there are a few occasions here and there where a 10-11 year old girl who has overt signs of both the presence of her secondary sexual characteristics and personality traits and emotional qualities we more often associate with teens than kids younger than that (traits that would generally be a turn off to most true pedophiles), can be found appealing to us AGLers.