I thought it was just me!

I feel the same as you - real society doesn't really reflect what we read in the general media now. All of my friends and work colleagues all know my sexual preference and they either support it, have the 'each to their own' opionion of it or have the same sexual preference as me. My boss always talks about his exploits when he was younger and I keep winding my team partner at work as his daughter hit 14 a couple of months ago - when ever he had to shoot out to pick her up on nightshifts cos shes out clubbing and haven't got a lift I always offer to which he gives me that no-chance look.

My wife understands my sexual preference as well as my history and shes okay with it - but if I have an affair no matter how old she my wife will still be after me with the rusty-scissors.

On the web I have met people who may not share my preference but respect me and who I am.

Once I was talking to my team partner about all this and we come to the conclusion (it was a late night btw) that sexual maturaty in girls are a lot like the speed in a car (he's an F1 nut) - my car may do 120mph - his does a lot more - but if I get caught doing that speed by the police in a zone with say 40mph limit then I would expect to get arrested, fine, points, ban etc - I can't argue that just because my car can go that fast that it should be legal for me to drive that fast. In the same vein girls may sexually mature at about 12ish (thats when I'm attracted to them - when they start to develop) I should not be able to argue that I should be allowed to have a sexual relationship with them. I may not agree with the law - I may not like the law - but I have to follow it or accept the concequences if I get caught breaking it. BTW I hardy stick to the speed limit - its set too high for me..