LGs, you and Hierophant hit on of my favorite points. Almost all heterosexual men are SEXUALLY attracted to 16yo girls (who are really young women). Most men though don't want a real relationship with those girls because of the SOCIAL aspects. They don't enjoy the company or share many interests with 16yo females.

I think many men would be happy to slip their dick in another guys ass or get a blow job from a 10yo blond if only they could be sure no one else would ever know. Those guys aren't in my book homosexuals or pedosexuals, just normal guys. OTOH people like me who REALLY TRULY WISH we could be the boyfriend and lover of a certain 12yo who's in the early part of Tanner Stage 2 puberty are the real deal, we are pedosexuals / pedophiles or hebesexuals / hebephiles /ephebephiles.

The GVGL