I have read lots of stuff on the internets that shows sex with children harms them.

And I have read lots of stuff that says that Hellary is the Messiah.

The difference is that I have had to learn to detect the biases and the methodological faults before accepting that something is true, defensible, debatable... or bullshit.

Shortly ago there was a thread on more paed sites (not fora). (https://www.annabelleigh.net/messages/451663.htm). Go to any of Daniel Lievre's recommended sites to begin with. Thanks.

Another thing is that you have probally never been afraid of being a pedophile and so you wouldnt understand why somebody who was afraid of it would go accusing people of being a pedophile, and they do all the time they do it because it makes them feel better about their own insecurities ive had people doing it to me personally and once they are told the reasons its wrong they stop doing it and im sure there are other people in the pedophile community who would agree with this.

As I said elsewhere, I agree with you on this one. Explains the MO of some to perfection.

I couldnt see why its wrong, so obviousley im going to look for reasons why its wrong because I dont like to think its right.

Erm... no.

Now THAT is a broken ethical compass.

If you cannot see by reason alone why it's wrong, then it's not. There is nothing else to it.

You can still, even after that, accept that it is wrong "in this society" - and I personally have no problem with that; and that should be as good an answer as you are going to get; because ethics is not THAT simple either. However, if you choose to believe something is wrong "in this society" you have to by the same action admit that you are being a cultural relativist and thus you accept that is not true for other societies, and thereby accept that you cannot criticise other societies on that basis

a psychologist of 20 years told me this himself and he says that it is "conditioning".

Psychology is as much a science as cutting up chicken to see from their insides what the outcome of the Iraq war will be.

Think this "if I think about peodphillia too much im going to turn into a pedophile". Do you see something?

Yes, I see that you have been thoroughly lied to and deceived by psychology and now you believe it.

yes it makes them impotent towards adults

Are you sure??

Your paragraph would imply that a society with few children and many senior citizens, such as, eg, East Germany, being relatively devoid of paedophilic stimuli, would have a very low rate of impotence. Sales of ed medicines prove you wrong, thanks.