Hmm

I'm just kinda curious, but do you capitalize those words as some kind of endearment or something? Because like... I like girls/women but I don't do uppercase because we sort of have to acknowledge that being born XX instead of XY isn't actually an accomplishment, nor is surviving into adolescence/adulthood...

But anyway yeah, I agree that I think we generally seek out similar types to ourselves which is why we'd prefer introverted people over extroverted. While at the same time, extroverted can be appealing sometimes due to being different. It is pretty much similar to the observation that opposites as well as similarities attract. Maybe people differ in whether they want new things or similar things?

One thing I do reject is wanting a girl because she's take care of ya. Pleasant and normal as that is to want, in pursuit of bein' a romantic ya gotta put takin' care of her first. If she wants to be one back to ya then it's fine but we'd best avoid selecting girls (even subconciously) based on the likelyhood of her giving back to us.

At the same time... maybe giving girls do need giving guys or else a non-giver would get paired with them, so essentially by cock-blocking the assholes, it is essentially caring for them, whereas a selfish girl would be able to throw away takers on their own? Just thought of this... hmmm....