Re: What about adult sexual partners ?

You might not like what I have to say but I would urge you to consider it anyway. Following this advice has certainly helped me immensely so I would like to share it with you.

YOU DON'T NEED A PARTNER (ADULT/TEEN/LG or what have you) to be content in life. Yes a GOOD partner can certainly be a life-enhancing elixir but is not NECESSARY for you to be content in life. If you link too much of your happiness to whether or not you have a partner you are setting yourself up for trouble:1) if it does not work out when you find one you might experience a much harder fall than the average person 2) you might be placing an unintentionally large burden on your partner if you link too much of your happiness to being with her and 3) you risk developing needy attitudes that may actually turn women away from you.

I will freely admit that I am 30 years old and I have NEVER had a Girlfriend, not even one date, virtually every Girl or Woman that I have developed an interest in has not felt the same way about me. My only intimate experiences with Women have been at Massage Parlours (all local laws obeyed and I do NOT frequent places where I even suspect that exploitative or illegal activity is taking place) It used to really bother me until stopped letting my love life (or lack thereof) determine my happiness. I learned to value all of the other things in life that were going well for me, I stopped feeling sorry for myself (by reminding myself that there are many starving people in the world and that these people have problems that dwarf mine) and I have become a reasonably content person today.

Now as far as to whether or not you should try to date Adult Women if you are a pedophile, being a NON-podephile I am perhaps not the most qalified person to answer these things but here are a few things that I would like to say: 1) I have a bit of a problem with someone trying to experiment with another person, especially if that person has feelings for you...I am not saying that that is necessarily what you are considering doing it's just that I would like to caution against that sort of thing. 2) If you're attraction to adult women is weak or non-existent than I am highly skeptical of the ability of anyone to make themselves like someone (I myself have fairly restrictive preferences for both Teen Girls and Adult Women, this is part of the reason why I have never had a girlfriend, I have been told that I should "broaden my horizons" but I just can't make myself be attracted to people). 3) If you are going to decide to look for an Adult Woman GLer...um, I don't have any statistics handy but...just how many Adult Women who are attracted to LGs are there? I think that's narrowing your search a bit too much IMHO (and no that is not a contradiction of point #2 because in point #2 I are talking about attraction but in point #3 I am talking about search parameters for finding an Adult Woman who may be accepting of your orientation).