Yes, that idea.

First, I don't think any GL should even consider a relationship with an adult partner absent that partner's full knowledge of the other's girl-loving ways.

I think you're right so far as the jealousy thing, too. Although I have dreamed and hypothesized about a woman who is confidant, intelligent, and trusting enough to realize that her acceptance and embrace of my girl-loving ways, and me, would put her in a class detached, and actually above little girls, I've yet to come very close to this one irl, at all.

Therefore, I have all but concluded that finding an adult female GL-er is really the only viable and sensible alternative.

Which is why I don't expect to be finding anyone anytime soon.

Now, if I were inclined or willing, a male partner of the latter ilk, I'm all but positive, would be much easier located and had. However, I am not.

Good luck.