Re: Hard decisions in parenting

Yes. And it seems there is a little confusion on the issue. Let me clarify one of the incidents.

They (the four girls at the instigation of the 'bully') sent an email to girl #5. I will call her Leeanne. Because she was over tonite...and she is oh so damn cute. This poor girl has no parents per se. Has no idea who her father is, mother married a guy, then she ran off so this guy is stuck raising her and that is how he acts; has no care where she is or what she does as long as she doesn't bother him. And it breaks my heart. I try to be kind and welcoming to her, but to be honest, she has developed a deceitful streak and none of the other girls care for her at all. (but I go back to she is so polite -to me-...and so damn cute.)

I try to tell my daughter to try and understand what she is going through and give exceptions...but she just keeps pushing buttons....

ANYWAY!

One day Penelope's mother comes over with a print out of an email the 4 girls sent to Leeanne. I was able to trace the email back to my daughters account that they all sent it from. It read somewhat like:

"Leeanne you are a slut whore, who screws guys for money because you have no parents." (over 2 paragraphs of the same vulgar stuff...using vulgar words I am not using here)

Leeanne was 8 at the time, two of the older girls were 12. I showed the note to the other girls parents, and while they were shocked, they just took her home and I never heard from them again. And this is a typical incident when my girl gets around this one.

But back to the fun part. Leeanne came over to join the party for a few hours...a little on the chubby side, but it suits her beauty and forming body with that black mini skirt....but alas she went home. The other girls don't get along with her too much so I don't see her near enough.

Oh. that and Penelope encouraged three of the other girls to join her in commandeering my bed. I just sat there in complete bliss while I denied the incredible urge to take the bait and jump in.

Yeah. I do have it good. Slap me next time I complain.
Although no Emma...so not a completely perfect night.