I'm not one to hold grudges no matter how deserved the grudges are. Holding a grudge causes me misery. Also d is right in a respect. She is sick in similar fashion as many people are sick. Their unlovingness causes them grief. They are indeed hurting "souls"

I just don't see the point in prayer seems like wasted energy to me. Although there does seem to be an effect people can have on their world through their presence be it a loving presence or a hateful one.