Thank you for your concern, Kalika. I consider many peeps on GC to be friends, and I only know them online. I have many online friends. But I won't reveal personal info to anyone that I've only known a short time...and yes, I know that a lonely hebe is quite vulnerable to entrapment...but rest assured I DO NOT engage in any illegal activity and I never would. But I am concerned about being used to gain information about me so as to "out" me online (I'm already "out" in public).